Baptism

I love sending out invitations... I love designing invitations.  Here is Maxwell's Baptism annoncement.  We are having a small gathering, mostly family. 

I designed it in the Creative Memories Digital Scrapbook.  I  really like this software, it's easy to use and has so many different things you can use/do without purchasing anything beyond the software.  Something elsoe i like about this software, is that you can find any digital scrapbook paper, picture, etc. and use it with this software.  I can't wait to start making some 12 x 12 pages for Maxwell and have them printed (not by Creative Memories, by Persnickety prints)

Nursing... Part 2... pumping

As promised part 2 of my "Nursing" series... pumping...

Let me explain my situations first. 

#1 and I at about 1 week

First Child:  I had #1 in 2008.  He was a big boy 9lb 9oz.  In the hospital I had a lot of trouble nursing, because of all the medications I had to have with my c-section.  I didn't feel I could hold him for the first hour, because I was shaking so badly from the epidural and just being cold... of course I had been in labor for 20 hours, ending in a c-section and all that contributed to my coldness. I tried nurising exclusively with him for the first 2 weeks of his life.  It was the most stressful  time of my life.  He cried all the time, he lost weight, I was exhausted, and in pain.  I even went back to talk to the lactation nurse in the hospital.  All adding up to we went to his 2 week appointment and he was STILL loosing weight.  The doctor said, you have to supplement.  So, we started right away with giving him a 2 oz bottle right after we tried nursing.  He slugged down the bottles and was never interested in nursing after this.  I pumped exclusively until he was about 10 1/2 months old.

#2 about 2 months old

Second child:  #2 was born in November 2010, also a 9lb 9oz baby boy.  I had a c-section with him and was only in labor 6 hours.  However, I had much less of a reaction to the drugs and it was a little better after the birth.  I was not afraid at all to ask for help EVERY TIME I NURSED while in the hospital.  I only have 2 hands and sometimes I needed more!  With #1 I didn't ask for help enough.  #2 is 15 weeks and we have trouble getting him to take a bottle!  I do pump every morning to get a stash built up for him.  And I pump if we are going to be gone for very long from the baby.

Now that you know about me... Let's just get it out there Breast Feeding SUCKS!  It's painful, it's time consuming, and your body is not yours.  But the benefits of breastmilk are so awesome, it's worth it!

I decided to pump exclusively with #1 and not go to formula for several reasons:
1.  I bought that $350 pump, I was going to use it
2.  I know the benefits of breastmilk
3.  I'm not giving up!
4.  Hope of easy weight loss

With #1 I learned a lot about pumping...

First it's your attitude

1. You have to go into it with a good attitude, if you don't  you won't have that great of results.
2. Realize it might not work for you, I know lots of people who get NOTHING from pumping and it just doesn't feel worth it.
3. Keep remembering that "breast is best" and breastmilk whether it's coming from your boob or the bottle, has the same nutrient
4. You need time away from your baby and if you don't get BM for him, you can't leave or you have to supplement

Cost/Equipment:

1. Some really lucky people have insurance that pays for breast pumps... yeah you!  I didn't and had to buy my non-returnable breast pump... so I USED it (still am for that matter). 
2. Although my breast pump was expensive, it has saved us at least that much money in cost of formula. 
3. When you pump, you have to store the milk... there are several ways to store milk.
1. Ice Cube trays- these are about 1oz per cube and I know a lot of people who do this.
2. Milk bags- I use milk bags.  They have worked for me and I like them. -- look for these on sale.  $8 for a box of 50 is pretty good.  Don't buy the Medela ones-- too expensive!! 
4. Nursing bras (see my previous post)

Actual pumping:

1. Number 1 KEY point is be relaxed.  If you aren't relaxed your milk won't let down and you really won't get much milk.  I use to read a book or watch TV while pumping to try to get relaxed. 
2. When you are pumping I find I get the best results when I massage the breast and push the milk down.
3. Pump as often as your baby eats (if you can).  if you don't your supply will go down and it will be stressful for all.
4. Keep everything CLEAN.   See this post I did on Mastitis.  It's no fun. ;)
5. Store your milk ... this is something that is kind of up in the air, but for the most part try to get it in the fridge ASAP and freeze soon after.
6. Set a goal for yourself.  Mine was to "use up" all the milk bags that I had bought (I bought more as the time went on, but at first it was to fill 100 bags, then 50 more, etc.) Maybe your goal would  be a certain age.

Upping your supply:

Do you feel like you aren't getting enough milk?  Is your baby fussy after feeding?  It could be that your supply is low.  I had troubles with this with #1, so here are my tips.

1. Pump OFTEN, as often as you can.  Especially pump when your baby eats.  Your body only produces milk when your nipples are stimulated... no stimulation, body thinks baby doesn't need it.
2. If nursing, pump after each nursing.
3. Use the let down feature on your electric pump to stimulate more production.  With #1 when I started to  get very little milk out during a pumping, I would hit this button and try to get more.
4. Massage your breasts from the chest to the nipple, helping push the milk down to the nipple.
5. Take a supplement.  I took Fenugreek, which is an herbal supplement and worked really well for me within 2 days my supply would be way up.  I took it almsot the whole time with #1.  You do start to smell like maple syrup when you sweat, but it's worth it.

6. There is something called Mother's Milk Tea... I have never used it, but I know of people who say it works wonders.

Next installment.... specific pumping supplies...

Nursing... Part 1... clothing

Nursing or breastfeeding is one of those things mommies do...it's NOT easy and I for sure don't judge people who choose not to or can't.  It's a difficult/time-consuming/painful/frustrating experience although the benefits for me FAR outweigh the negatives.

I will share over the course of several posts some things about nursing and pumping that I have found out or what works for me.  I hope you find these things helpful, too!!

I'm starting with the "fun" post, clothing...

I have this shirt and it's Fab!!

Nursing clothes... this is one of the things I love to hate.  With #1, I thought- what a waste of money, plus I saw NONE that I liked and they were super duper expensive.  With #2, I have bought quite a few items.  However, I am stingy and picky about what I get.  I bought a couple and I was HOOKED!  Nursing tops make nursing so much EASIER!! Here are some pointers about buying nursing  tops and some brands I have found.  I really wish I had bought some of these when I had #1.

What is a nursing top?  It's a fabulous invention that alows you to nurse by just moving a part of your shirt... you are not exposed to the elements and you feel much more "covered".  Most have a panel that covers your belly and you just move a panel and unhook your bra and you are nursing.  All of the tops I have I can do it all one handed (definate plus with a squirming infant in your arms and a 2 year old climbing on your lap).
1. Use the "deal of the day" sites to get good stuff.  All of the websites will send you an email (if you want) to tell you what the new deals are.  However, if you REALLY want something (especially from babysteals, you have to get on WHEN they put up a steal). Here are my favorites...

• http://www.babysteals.com/  - 1 deal at a time and it's hit or miss what it will be.  However, they do have nursing tops occasionally and they are great quality.
• http://www.totsy.com/ - more than 1 deal at a time, has lots of kids stuff too. -- you have to have an invite to get right on this site... use this link http://www.totsy.com/join/emmyann419
• ww.zulily.com - more than 1 deal at a time, has lots of kids stuff, too.  This site tends to have "higher end" merchandise.  You have to have an invite for this site, too.  Use this link to get right to the site:  http://www.zulily.com/invite/emoore929
• http://www.thebump.com/ - this is 1 deal at a time and it is either maternity or nursing, hit or miss.

2.  I have gotten all of my nursing gear either at Target (for bras & cami's) or these deal of the day.  Target has the best price on Cami's.  Look on the clearance rack for really good deals, otherwise you can get them at Target.com (much better selection), this is my favorite tank.  I think they run a little small in the chest, so I have gotten bigger sizes.

3. Brands... there are a ton!  However, they all run a little "small" (read tight) and for my self-consious self and baby belly & boobs, I always order a size up.

• milkstars (these are about $70 retail, I got mine for under $30 from babysteals)
• Everly Grey (again retail for well over $70 and get them for less than 30- run a little small)
• Annee Matthew ($75 retail, got them for $28 and they fit so nice... flattering even for not so flat tummies)
• CT Maternity is another, very reasonable
• Bravado- nursing bras
• Undercover mama - cami that you attach to your nursing bra, really comfy!

4.  Yes, there is shipping, but it's reasonable!!  Plus, no tax. :)

5.  I do not care for the styles or bras from Motherhood Maternity.  My boobs fall out of the bras (especially when they are full) and for the price, the clothing is not stylish.

6.  Nursing Bras- YOU NEED THESE if you are nursing.  Don't get underwires, get a good bra.  They are awesome, because you don't have to take off your bra in order to nurse (or pump), it has a little snap and it hooks on (usually) with one hand.  Awesome.

I have 3 brands... Motherhood (see #5), Bravado and Target's Gilligan & O'Malley.  I have Ds when not nursing, so I need something that holds up!  I used my Bravado for almost 12 months with #1 and they are still in great shape (I'm a single use bra wearer, so they were washed often - especially with milk involved...).  Around here I can't get anything good- so I order it all online and usually there is some kind of free shipping.


Next post... pumping supplies.

3 months...

My baby is now 3 months old (it was on Tuesday, but that's how it goes when you have a 3 month old)!  He is getting so big!  I love all of his smiles, giggles, and even his cry is kind of cute (except at 2:30 in the morning).  Here is a quick list of the things little Maxwell is up to these days...

• He loves to look at his big brother.  When Jackson is playing he watches him like a hawk and if Jackson goes up to him he will smile. 
• He gets kisses from his big brother at bedtime and SMILES so big! Maxwell likes to give big open mouthed kisses to Jackson!
• Sleeps from 9-1030pm before going  down after his last "meal".  He sleeps after his last "meal" for 4-9 hours just depending.  We have moved him from the swing, but he only likes to sleep propped up.  So, he sleeps on his boppy in the pack'n play in our room. 
• He wakes between 8:30 and 9am, eats and goes back down for an hour or two. 
• He is still nursing almost exclusively... sometimes he gets a bottle, but not very often.  It's just easier.  I still pump every morning and  have quite a stash built up. :)
• He eats about every 3-4 hours in the morning/early afternoon, but by 4pm, it's every 2 - 2 1/2 hours.
• He is less of a messy eater... he has gotten it down and goes pretty fast these days.  But he likes to hang out and suck.  I call myself the "human pacifier".
• As I eluded to above, still not that interested in a pacifier.
• He only cries when he is hungry and right before he falls asleep.
• After every "meal" he spits up... a lot.  The most is usually about an hour after he eats.
• He smiles all the time.  I missed this with Jman since I went back to work and I just love it!
• Maxwell is very vocal and makes TONS of sounds all the time, he gets especially "wild" when he and Daddy are playing after Jman goes to bed.
• He is now in 3-6 month clothing (but can still wear 3 month stuff and some 6 month things)
• We are cloth diapering... this has caused a lot of his clothing to fit a little snug (3 month), but otherwise it's going well. :)
• Hates belly time.  Screams after about 15 seconds, but we keep trying it. :)
• Grabs at toys that are hanging.
• sucks on his hands when he is upset... sometimes gets a couple of fingers in his mouth, he likes that.   He is really a noisy sucker. ;)
• clasps his hands together in front of his  face and looks at them for a long time.
• He loves these flat blanket toys he got for Christmas.  they make crinkly noises and have soft plastic corners or silky corner, he really likes them and will grab and play with them.
• Likes to have a burp cloth near his face (probably because we always have one close by, because of his spitting up).
• Still has all his hair (minus the back where it rubs from sleeping) and is starting to get a curl on his forehead I think.  His hair is still  lighter than Jman's and really fluffy after a bath.
• He also has great head control and loves to stand up!  Strong legs!!

That's quite a list.  He is just such a good baby.  We fall more in love with him each day!

Cloth diapers

Three of my friends from my Stroller Strides days (they are still my friends) talked so much about their use of cloth diapers (and saving money using them) that I decided to up on the cloth diaper bandwagon. Solely, because I want to find ways to save money, so I can still do the stuff I want to do even though I am not working without the amount of guilt I feel not contributing finiancially to our household. It's a nice bonus that we can also save a little waste.


I decided to go with the Bum Genius diapers, because that is what most of the girls I talked to were using. I got 10 diapers that were "seconds"- work the same, but much cheaper. I got mine from Cotton Babies. When Maxwell was born some friends gave us diapers, too. They got them from Green Bottoms in Davenport. We are still using disposable wipes, because I just don't want to invest the time and money into making/getting cloth wipes. Also, I like the idea that I can just throw those away, too. :)


We started on February 4- here is a picture of Maxwell sporting the cutie diapers!

Diaper Rewards

I have gotten a lot of questions lately when I post Gifts to Grow points on my Facebook status, so to save myself time, I think I am going to have a blog post and then people can go to  it in order to learn about the points!

Pampers and  Huggies both offer some type of rewards program. Pampers is called Gifts to Grow and has been around as long as I have had a kid (2 1/2 years).  Huggies' program is relatively new and called Enjoy the Ride.  I just joined the Huggies Program, because my son needed the size 6 sleep diapers and Pampers doesn't make size 6.

Here is the downlow for Pampers

• Gifts to Grow (GTG) codes are found on wipes and diapers.  The more expensive the diapers, typically the more points you get for each package.  Click https://en.giftstogrow.pampers.com/points-matrix.html for a table of points.  These are ONE TIME USE.  So you can't share them with others.
• GTG codes are entered ont the Pampers Website. http://www.pampers.com/
• GTG promotional codes are all over the place these are for EVERYONE TO USE:
• the  web is a great source, just type in GTG codes and you will get a bunch of sites
• Facebook- there is a Pampers Group that shares codes
• Mailings and on P&G saver flyers/coupons, be on the look out
• Many of these codes do expire though, so keep an eye out for expiration dates when sharing
• You have to sign up for GTG account in order to get the free stuff.
• Shipping is FREE on the products you earn.
• There are a lot of different prizes you can earn for different amounts.  Usually a $20 gift card will be 2000 points, so think about what you want before you start, so you can save your points appropriately.

I have gotten 2- $20 gift cards for Sam's Club (can use at Walmart), 2- potty seats, a couple of toys, and a free t-shirt from my GTG points from my first boy (2 1/2 now).  I didn't even know about GTG points until he was a few months old so I know I missed a ton of points in those first few months.


The Huggies Program is new to me, but it looks to work in a similar way.  Click http://www.huggies.com/en-US/rewards/products to see the matrix for Huggies products.  The catalog of prizes is much smaller than Pampers.   There is also a way to enter "bonus" codes, but it looks like you have to enter the bonus codes when you are entering a package of diapers... so maybe they are located somewhere else.  i haven't taken the time to figure that part out (I only have 19 points, so I can't get anything yet).

I hope you take advantage of these FREE rewards even if you don't use the diapers!  Pampers I know for sure you can earn free stuff if you enter all the "free" codes they put out there for you!!

Good luck!

Emily